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Problems?? Ruuuuun… or maybe Not??

Do you happen to have a problem? Of course you have… we all have problems, some of us have bigger problems other have smaller ones. Problems are not something that we actually want and certainly they don't make us happy. That's why many people try to run from their problems so they try to forget about them by stuffing them way back in the brain. But the brain can't be always fooled… you may fool it for a short period of time but those problems will come back and haunt you. This is one of the reasons why people often go down the road of depression at a certain age… it's because the still have issues from the past that they postponed, either they're problems related to their childhood or something about past failed relationships, these problems will come back to you at a certain time in your life and when they'll come they won't come alone. The issues will invade you one after another like a chain reaction and in that moment you won't be able to face them all. That's why I advice you to deal with them one by one when you have the chance. Now in order to solve your problems is to find the source of these nasty issues. A common mistake that most of us make is that we tend to blame other for everything and it's damn hard to find the source when we blame others for your own mistakes. Blaming other leads only to another problem… by throwing the fault anyone else but is only makes things worst because be expect those people to fix the problems that we think they created. But if we take a look at the problem for a drifferent perspective and what we'll see is that WE are the real cause of the problem… and the sooner we realize this the better. After you found the source of the problem you don't have to panic because everything is fine now… if you have the problem… you are the source… the guess what? YOU HAVE THE SOLUTION!!! Just look inside you and the solution will come right away because you past the hardest step... and that is finding the source of the problem.

So in conclusion, the best way to escape from your problem is to solve them!

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